He can be reached through his website, philelmore. The reason it is a problem is because it facilitates the deconstruction of necessary social gender roles. Stated another way, there are or were social rules for how men and women are to behave. When men adhere to these rules, when they conduct themselves according to these social guidelines, they enjoy more success overall. They appear and behave as if they are worthy of respect, of treatment as adult men, of female attention, of reproduction and families.